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UPDATE: Kids Find Parents in Homicide, Suicide

Police said that the couple had marital problems.

Update: May 2, 2012 at 1:23 p.m.

Four children returned to their North Bellmore home after school Tuesday afternoon to find their mother dead on the floor of the laundry room and their father locked in an upstairs bedroom.

Thomas Hayes, 43, stabbed his wife, Sherrelle Hayes, 44, and then hung himself, police said.


According to Homicide Det. Sgt. Greg Lesmeister, the couple's 13-year-old daughter was the first to arrive home and her father only spoke to her from behind the door. Lesmeister said Hayes instructed her to pick up her other siblings - ages 10, 9 and 7 - from school. When she and three other siblings returned to the Smith Avenue home, they could not get in the front door.

The children gained entry through another door and found blood on the kitchen floor. They then followed the blood trail and found their mother lying on the laundry room floor, according to police. They also saw a note and allegedly notified police.

The 13-year-old then went upstairs to the bedroom to look for her father, but the door was locked.

When police arrived on the scene, they found Sherrelle Hayes dead with three stab wounds and found Thomas Hayes in the upstairs bedroom, hanging from the ceiling. Thomas Hayes was transported to Nassau University Medical Center where he died.

Authorities said that they removed numerous items from the house, but they have not determined what Thomas Hayes used to stabbed his wife.

Police said that Sherrelle Hayes, who worked for an insurance company in Jericho, took her children to school that morning and then returned home. Thomas Hayes worked nights as a construction engineer in Manhattan, police said.

Neighbors told police that they heard the two arguing early that morning.

"We believe that Sherrelle Hayes was killed hours before she was found," Lesmeister said.

Lesmeister also said that there were problems in the Hayeses' marriage.

"There is absolutely some indication of it," he said. "There was a marital discord and some legal troubles."

Thomas Hayes was involved in an open larceny case involving the federal government and possibly made a plea not to serve jail time, Lesmeister said.

Neighbor Mike Sudlow told Patch that his 11-year-old daughter plays with the family's second oldest child. Sudlow said he has known the family for more than 10 years.

"I’m in shock," he said. "They seemed to be the nicest couple. If you were looking for your kids, you went straight to their house because all of the kids played there."

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Dan DeLilla May 18, 2013 at 10:40 pm
So Lu Scala never had any children so it might be safe to say you have never been to a PTA meetingRead More or a School Board meeting or a budget presentation so then you would have no idea how the money is spent good or bad. I'm sorry that your neighbors make more than you but like anything else you get what you pay for there are educational requirements for teaching and administration jobs, I'm sure you would be happy if all the school personnel could be replaced by minimum wage earners or better yet we could close all the schools after all you have been out of school for 40 years so you don't need them anymore, but thats not how it works. Why is always the uninformed that speak loudest and longest?
Lu Scala May 17, 2013 at 08:49 am
I never had any kids.. and am the last kid who went to to the Bellmore Merrick school system.....itsRead More been almost 40 years since I was a Mempham grad..and it is very disharting to hear that my many many high tax dollars..are not enought for these kids I have been sororting all these years!!! Who is getting all the money??? Its all bull.. aI live inbetween teachers.. how is it they can afford high end cars, housekeepers, landscapers, ect??????... the money is being spent in the WRONG WAYS TO THE TEACHERS, AND MOST OF ALL THE ADMISTRATION, THE SCHOOL BOARD ECT... I AM CALLING FOR A MASSIVE AUDIT AND GET0 per year.. they afe not worth any more then that.. THE MONEY BACK FROM ANYONE WHO WAS PAID MORE THEN $75,00....
patti May 16, 2013 at 08:28 pm
A bit of a surprise considering kids come home with a supply list a mile long (and average $40-$75).
Michael Ganci (Editor) May 14, 2013 at 01:34 pm
Can you edit above and add photo? Then I will post to top news! Thanks! MG