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Making Sense Out of Parenting

Introducing a new column that will answer questions from residents about child-rearing.

Way back when, parents were younger and had extended family either living with them or nearby.

In that scenario, it was not only mom and dad raising the children; it was grandparents, aunts, uncles, sisters, brothers, cousins and so on. Hence the old adage, "It takes a village to raise a child." This is where Parent Sense, Inc. comes in. We help fill the role of "the village" and assist parents in developing their "parent sense".  

This back-to-basics approach to parenting was created by Rebecca Kammerer and Beth Karcher, who recognized the need for simple and practical techniques to help parents. Beth of 8-year-old twins and a 2-year-old, and Rebecca of 3-year-old twins, met while attending meetings of the Nassau County Mother of Twins Club. What started out as just some friendly advice between moms has turned into a lasting friendship and full-blown business for Karcher and Kammerer.   

"We have been writing a parenting advice column for the Garden City Patch for about a year now, and we love it," Kammerer said. "We get a lot of positive feedback, especially on articles dealing with our firsthand experience." 

Karcher, after completing her MBA at Cornell University, did not think raising children would be hard.  But it is the hardest job she ever had, with little to no training!  There are so many books and theories to read and no time to do so. As a parent, we often ask, "Am I doing the right thing?" It has become her passion to help guide others in parenting issues so you can be prepared and not feel helpless or overwhelmed.  Her goal is to tailor a simple strategy that works for your family.  Once you have a plan, things will go smoothly. She is a Love and Logic® Facilitator and Breastfeeding Advocate. 

Kammerer, Co-Founder of Parent Sense, Inc., is a former nanny who worked for a celebrity business tycoon, film/TV writer, high school teacher, former FBI agent, stay-at-home mother and an OB/GYN, among others. Fourteen years of live-in/live-out child care experience, a teacher's assistant at the Bedford Village School District in Bedford, along with running her own day-care business, prepared her well for parenthood.  Kammerer is the mother of toddler twins. As a Love and Logic® Facilitator, Kammerer is a firm believer in a simple, back-to-basics approach to parenting.

"People need to understand that it's part of a more simplified lifestyle. You have to feed them enough healthy food, give them enough exercise and establish good sleeping habits. Most issues we encounter arise due to one of these basics not being met,"  she said.

In addition to writing advice columns and running workshops, Parent Sense, Inc. holds private coaching sessions in your home. Browse our website, email us at parentsense@theparentsense.com, or give us a call at 516-286-1785 and let us know the issues/challenges you are facing. Or, just drop a line to tell us what you think is working particularly well for your family. Our goal is to help everyone utilize and explore their own parent sense. Be sure to join our Parent Support Group for weekly advice articles, promotions and event announcements.

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Greg Bashaw May 21, 2013 at 09:32 pm
As for the mandate, maybe YOU should run for the Board, we need a change and thats WHY I amRead More running... Thanks for the info though!
Greg Bashaw May 21, 2013 at 09:30 pm
FYI- Rosemary Corliss, mentioned it 2times as something are are planning to loo at....at Meet theRead More Candidates Night......
Pat Boyle Egland May 20, 2013 at 04:06 pm
The NBUFSD BOE has not mentioned cutting bussing in over a year, it is not a part of the 2013-2014Read More budget. The pensions and benefits are not regulated by the BOE it is a state mandate.
Pat Boyle Egland May 22, 2013 at 02:48 pm
Eliminating the CHSD is a great idea but it needs to be voted on by the citizens of all 4 districtsRead More . In BM we have 5 set of administration - North Bellmore, Bellmore, North Merrick, Merrick and CHSD . Pensions are a are a state and national battle NOT local
Greg Bashaw May 20, 2013 at 12:50 am
Well for starters, why not give candidates 401K's and only pay a proportion of their benefits...HireRead More teachers and adm that actually live in our district...... Has anybody proposed dismantling the high school district......From the way I understand they have tried unsuccessfully to combine, well then how about saving moneu and splitting up the 3 high schools...This was we wont need 2 administrations...... I will try and I will think out of the box!
truth May 19, 2013 at 09:11 pm
You are going to do something that even Cuomo won't touch...pensions? Well, thank you forRead More recognizing the real problem that faces the taxpayers but how will you address the problem and not just promise?
Dan DeLilla May 18, 2013 at 10:40 pm
So Lu Scala never had any children so it might be safe to say you have never been to a PTA meetingRead More or a School Board meeting or a budget presentation so then you would have no idea how the money is spent good or bad. I'm sorry that your neighbors make more than you but like anything else you get what you pay for there are educational requirements for teaching and administration jobs, I'm sure you would be happy if all the school personnel could be replaced by minimum wage earners or better yet we could close all the schools after all you have been out of school for 40 years so you don't need them anymore, but thats not how it works. Why is always the uninformed that speak loudest and longest?
Lu Scala May 17, 2013 at 08:49 am
I never had any kids.. and am the last kid who went to to the Bellmore Merrick school system.....itsRead More been almost 40 years since I was a Mempham grad..and it is very disharting to hear that my many many high tax dollars..are not enought for these kids I have been sororting all these years!!! Who is getting all the money??? Its all bull.. aI live inbetween teachers.. how is it they can afford high end cars, housekeepers, landscapers, ect??????... the money is being spent in the WRONG WAYS TO THE TEACHERS, AND MOST OF ALL THE ADMISTRATION, THE SCHOOL BOARD ECT... I AM CALLING FOR A MASSIVE AUDIT AND GET0 per year.. they afe not worth any more then that.. THE MONEY BACK FROM ANYONE WHO WAS PAID MORE THEN $75,00....
patti May 16, 2013 at 08:28 pm
A bit of a surprise considering kids come home with a supply list a mile long (and average $40-$75).