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Do You Give to Panhandlers?

With increased number of panhandlers spotted from Bellmore to Riverhead raising questions about scams, do you open your wallet or ignore them?

Panhandling, an activity common on many busy New York City street corners, has been increasingly common on Long Island triggering suspicion and cause for alarm. 

Patch reported in "Locals Fear Panhandlers Might be Scammers" that a local blog "She Thinks That..."  gave detailed reports of panhandler sightings on Aug. 29 and questioned if Long Islanders were being swindled by the "not-so-homeless." 

Many reported seeing a family that moved from outside Target in Commack to Walmart in Setauket, and further east, where a man, woman and children were holding signs and asking passers-by for money. 

Patch readers responded with hundreds of emails and comments, with reports of additional sightings and their gut emotional response to these panhandlers. 

Some of our readers have helped and given to these panhandlers

"Yes, i have helped a family husband wife [supposedly] and infant and child in hand standing by exit door of king kullen st james ny with a sign in need of help [money] for food and rental money so they wouldn't be living on the street your article on this matter just confirms my belief in second guessing my decision to help when it is a scam it is sad that you want to help but am being taken advantage of," commented John Matthew.

Others reported sightings:

"Holy Cow! This exact same thing is going down right now at the Shopping Center I shop at in Yaphank! Guy with kids in tow holding a sign claiming he needs money for food & rent. What annoyed me was that he's standing in front of a store that has a huge "Help Wanted" sign in the window! Next time I see him there, you bet your ass I'll be calling the police," wrote John Massaro. 

Some believed if local residents stopped giving these panhandlers their hard-earned cash, they will go away. 

Tracy wrote," Come on people; stop feeling bad for these scammers. You work hard for your money. Stop handing it over to someone who should be doing the same! Instead of sitting in a shopping center for hours on end begging for money, they should be out all those hours looking for a job. I'm sorry but they get away with it because you are giving in and feeling bad. Well stop! Then they will go away!"

We'd like to ask, do you give to panhandlers? If so, are you more likely to give them cash or donate food/clothing? Do you refuse and point them towards local nonprofits? 

Tell us in the comments below. 

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Just a short thought to get the word out quickly about anything in your neighborhood.
Share something with your neighbors. Write a new post... What's up? Make an announcement, speak your mind, or sell something
Greg Bashaw May 21, 2013 at 09:32 pm
As for the mandate, maybe YOU should run for the Board, we need a change and thats WHY I amRead More running... Thanks for the info though!
Greg Bashaw May 21, 2013 at 09:30 pm
FYI- Rosemary Corliss, mentioned it 2times as something are are planning to loo at....at Meet theRead More Candidates Night......
Pat Boyle Egland May 20, 2013 at 04:06 pm
The NBUFSD BOE has not mentioned cutting bussing in over a year, it is not a part of the 2013-2014Read More budget. The pensions and benefits are not regulated by the BOE it is a state mandate.
Pat Boyle Egland May 22, 2013 at 02:48 pm
Eliminating the CHSD is a great idea but it needs to be voted on by the citizens of all 4 districtsRead More . In BM we have 5 set of administration - North Bellmore, Bellmore, North Merrick, Merrick and CHSD . Pensions are a are a state and national battle NOT local
Greg Bashaw May 20, 2013 at 12:50 am
Well for starters, why not give candidates 401K's and only pay a proportion of their benefits...HireRead More teachers and adm that actually live in our district...... Has anybody proposed dismantling the high school district......From the way I understand they have tried unsuccessfully to combine, well then how about saving moneu and splitting up the 3 high schools...This was we wont need 2 administrations...... I will try and I will think out of the box!
truth May 19, 2013 at 09:11 pm
You are going to do something that even Cuomo won't touch...pensions? Well, thank you forRead More recognizing the real problem that faces the taxpayers but how will you address the problem and not just promise?
Dan DeLilla May 18, 2013 at 10:40 pm
So Lu Scala never had any children so it might be safe to say you have never been to a PTA meetingRead More or a School Board meeting or a budget presentation so then you would have no idea how the money is spent good or bad. I'm sorry that your neighbors make more than you but like anything else you get what you pay for there are educational requirements for teaching and administration jobs, I'm sure you would be happy if all the school personnel could be replaced by minimum wage earners or better yet we could close all the schools after all you have been out of school for 40 years so you don't need them anymore, but thats not how it works. Why is always the uninformed that speak loudest and longest?
Lu Scala May 17, 2013 at 08:49 am
I never had any kids.. and am the last kid who went to to the Bellmore Merrick school system.....itsRead More been almost 40 years since I was a Mempham grad..and it is very disharting to hear that my many many high tax dollars..are not enought for these kids I have been sororting all these years!!! Who is getting all the money??? Its all bull.. aI live inbetween teachers.. how is it they can afford high end cars, housekeepers, landscapers, ect??????... the money is being spent in the WRONG WAYS TO THE TEACHERS, AND MOST OF ALL THE ADMISTRATION, THE SCHOOL BOARD ECT... I AM CALLING FOR A MASSIVE AUDIT AND GET0 per year.. they afe not worth any more then that.. THE MONEY BACK FROM ANYONE WHO WAS PAID MORE THEN $75,00....
patti May 16, 2013 at 08:28 pm
A bit of a surprise considering kids come home with a supply list a mile long (and average $40-$75).